The Glory of
Swinging
In recent years I have seen an increased interest in the
swinging lifestyle. There interest seems
to stem from its placement in cultural TV shows. A lot of these people do not understand all
that is what swinging is all about
Swinging is not all about getting people together to just
have sex or fuck, it is a gathering of people who share an openness and willing
to share with others. What it is not, is
a way for civilians to act out their pornographic fantasies.
I tell people it is no different than a chess or sewing club. It is a place where everyone can get together
to talk share and enjoy each other’s company in an open environment free of
social judgments.
The parties that swingers throw are no different than any
other evening party or night out at a club.
It is not just a bunch of naked people, unless that is the theme of the
party. Usually themes are the same in vanilla clubs
like
schoolgirl party, ladies night etc.
The difference between swing and vanillia parties starts there. There is a different energy you feel building
up; an anticipation energy which fills the room.
All of this you add the smell of the pheromones
and sexy talk amplifies the energy level.
It leaves the feeling that at anytime it can all erupt.
Another thing I tell people often is this is all about
pleasure, and the focus of the pleasure should be on the woman. It is no different than a regular club, as
remember the woman could always find another swinging dick in the room.
She may want you, but if you treat her or her
spouse with no respect, she will more than likely move on to find a guy who
will
Again most swing parties are NOT orgies, (again unless it
is the theme or what the woman wants) but a way to play and experience pleasure
and fulfill their desires.
The second biggest thing is, remember to talk to your partner, figure out how far eash are willing the other to go, and respect your own partner's desires.
Go and have fun but always be safe
