What Is

Casual Sex???

There are questions out there of what is casual sex.  There have been many people I hear talking believe this choice in lifestyle to be to be dangerous and downfall of society.  I want to flip this argument to show how it can be a healthy choice if partners choose to do safely.

There are many of my friends (me included) who met and married their spouse whose relationship started as a casual sex encounter.  I met my wife on a local swinger’s website.  She was a single girl and I was a single guy.  Yes I am the legendary unicorn slayer.

Casual sex has gone by many different names,

One Night Stands…

Friends with Benefits…

Fuck Buddies…

Swing Partners… 

The list can be endless.

With life as it is now days with focusing on establishing work careers, the personal physical aspects of people’s lives are being lost or pushed to the side or ignored unlike previous generations have not experienced.  It leaves people now days feeling a little empty and deprived of physical connection.

Having casual sex is not having “heartless” sex, as a self proclaimed “reformed tramp” stated in a CNN article.  Casual sex allows a person fill the basic need for human connection and sexual release.  It should not be used to completely fill all the voids a person might be experiencing in their lives.

Casual sex also allows you to take a friendship to another level.  It allows the both of you, as long as both people agree, to expand the friendship and relieve sexual tensions which might be building in a friendship or other type of interpersonal relationship.

This type of relationship everyone is searching for but it could provide busy professionals an ability to meet and connect on a carnal level a new type of relationship.  Never know a casual encounter can lead to a lifetime relationship.